By Golan......Do you remember a few years ago, when we were stuck in lock downs, wearing masks, and social distancing? We couldn’t travel to see friends and family, and the news was filled with Covid infections and deaths. It was tough, but now, looking back, we often view it with relative ease. Crises comes and goes, and inevitably, another takes its place. Can we look back on it now with a sense of humor or a sigh of relief?
Keeping this in mind might help us face the current challenges affecting us. Let’s hold onto the hope that the war(s) will end sooner rather than later, and that we’ll regain our strength before another challenge arises.
So how do you think we are doing navigating our current challenges? Liberal Jewish communities have often found themselves at odds with the current Israeli government, yet we share a deep bond with the people of Israel. That makes it difficult to live in a place where the atmosphere toward Israel feels increasingly hostile. However, let's acknowledge that there are glimmers of light. Many Belgians are speaking out against the scapegoating of Israel and the growing hostility toward Jewish life in Belgium. The police have worked cooperatively to protect Jewish sites, and even most politicians with anti-Israel stances denounce antisemitism. And despite social tensions, our members and our sister community, Beth Hillel, have gathered safely and without disruption.
We should also recognize the opportunities for bridge-building. Some of our Muslim neighbors may have a tainted view of Judaism, yet most are open to dialogue when approached with empathy. I have experienced this firsthand when visiting a falafel place in Leuven. When I paid with an Israeli credit card, the person behind the counter realized I was Israeli and shared that he was from Gaza. How do you respond to such an encounter? I looked him in the eyes and expressed my sorrow for the suffering of his people. Though he didn’t explicitly mention the suffering of Israelis, his body language and kindness spoke volumes. Later, he came over to chat about what it’s like living in Belgium. Not everyone finds it easy to put complex emotions into words, but small gestures of empathy can go a long way towards building trust and understanding.
Empathy is our bridge—not only to the world outside but also within our own community and with our sister community, Beth Hillel. It allows us to connect across differences, creating bonds of trust and mutual respect. By practicing empathy in our interactions—whether with neighbors of other faiths, those who challenge our perspectives, or fellow members of our own community—we can build a stronger foundation for dialogue, connection, and growth. Let us continue to walk this path together, embodying the values that unite us even in difficult times.
Photo of a visit to the Tel Aviv Museum of Art with Golan's nephews during Covid.
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